Occasionally someone will say that homosexuality is “the
greatest threat to marriage,” or something like that. Really? Not making and
keeping marriage vows is the greatest threat to marriage. This is true, whether
we mean the greatest threat to individual marriages, or the greatest threat to
marriage as an institution. Marriage, in present-day North America, needs
commitment, by both partners, and it needs a partnership with God, to truly
succeed. There would be significant marriage problems even if homosexuality
didn’t exist. All too many marriages have failed, and will fail, and all too
many of these failures are failures of heterosexual believing couples. God help
us!
Homosexual marriage?
Some Christians believe that it is their duty to prevent
homosexual “marriage” from becoming legal, or to work to make it illegal in
places where it has been declared to be legal. Perhaps God has, indeed, called
them to do this. But other Christians feel led to try to lead homosexuals to
repentance and a loving relationship with a Christian congregation, and that
seems to have been the approach of the New Testament Church. Being militant
about homosexual “marriage” most likely makes it difficult or impossible to
carry out the New Testament approach.
Should a church be required to hold a marriage ceremony for
a homosexual couple? No. Churches should not be required to marry anyone. Various
churches, and pastors, will refuse to marry couples, for several reasons. As
indicated above [in another section of the book -- see here], it is not clear that marriage should even be a church
function, although, for many people, it is now.
Should homosexual partners be allowed to receive certain
legal benefits? At least some of them. I personally believe that a hospital
should allow visitation privileges to long-time homosexual partners. Receiving
this, and other, legal benefits is not the same as marriage, and legal marriage
should not be the same as Christian marriage. A Christian can be in favor of
some legal benefits for homosexual partners, but still believe that homosexual
activity is sinful, marriage between homosexuals is wrong, and that practicing
homosexuals should not be received as church members, or ordained as pastors.
The above is an excerpt from my recently published e-book, Does the Bible Really Say That?, which may be obtained free of charge, or purchased from Amazon for $0.99, which is the lowest price Amazon lets an author set. Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible, which is in the public domain.
The previous post in this series is here. God willing, the next excerpt will continue discussion of this topic.
1 comment:
Thanks, atlibertytosay.
No doubt there are many who would disagree with your assessment -- it's a sticky subject!
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